Today I decided to write a piece about DATING.
As you already know the first impression is important.
And I begin!
1.The place.
If you haven't arranged where you will go,it would be nice of him if he asked you were you want to go.Common mistake girls do:They say they don't mind.
My advice:If you think of a place,you really want to go with your wanna-be-boyfriend then tell it straiiiiight to him!Firstly because you will show that you are sure about yourself,secondly because you know that in this place you will feel comfortable and at last you will give a solution quickly so you can move on ;)
If you haven't arranged where you will go,it would be nice of him if he asked you were you want to go.Common mistake girls do:They say they don't mind.
My advice:If you think of a place,you really want to go with your wanna-be-boyfriend then tell it straiiiiight to him!Firstly because you will show that you are sure about yourself,secondly because you know that in this place you will feel comfortable and at last you will give a solution quickly so you can move on ;)
2.The clothes.
In my opinion your clothes have to be stylish but comfortable.In my boyfriend's opinion your clothes must make your body look hot:p
*Extra tip:Keep it simple.Simple make-up and simple jewelery.
Must
-be polite.No,you can't text to your best-friend during the date.
-pay attention,even though some thing you hear are not really interesting(it goes along with the first tip)
-do eye contact.A classic tip.
-don't be afraid to laugh.
-when you need to pay although it is a tradition for the boy to pay the bill,make a suggestion to pay yours.However I'm sure he won't let you.
-learn about his likes and dislikes.
-be yourself.Yes I know it's too cliche BUT if you like the guy you are gonna show him the“really you”one way or another.
Extra tip no2:Be confident!
In my opinion your clothes have to be stylish but comfortable.In my boyfriend's opinion your clothes must make your body look hot:p
*Extra tip:Keep it simple.Simple make-up and simple jewelery.
3.The Talking-The Moving.
Well,this is a very important part because usually from the other person's reaction you can learn if it is a successful date.Yes,if he starts answering in one word or staring at the blondie behind you,hm,sorry to tell you but your date is not the perfect one.
So here are some tested thing you should do and some things you must avoid(remember the blondie)
Well,this is a very important part because usually from the other person's reaction you can learn if it is a successful date.Yes,if he starts answering in one word or staring at the blondie behind you,hm,sorry to tell you but your date is not the perfect one.
So here are some tested thing you should do and some things you must avoid(remember the blondie)
Must-be polite.No,you can't text to your best-friend during the date.
-pay attention,even though some thing you hear are not really interesting(it goes along with the first tip)
-do eye contact.A classic tip.
-don't be afraid to laugh.
-when you need to pay although it is a tradition for the boy to pay the bill,make a suggestion to pay yours.However I'm sure he won't let you.
-learn about his likes and dislikes.
-be yourself.Yes I know it's too cliche BUT if you like the guy you are gonna show him the“really you”one way or another.
Must Not
-talk TOO much or ask TOO many-and sometimes offensive-questions.
-talk about your ex-boyfriends.He will think that you have not gotten over
them.
-be slutty.
-talk TOO much or ask TOO many-and sometimes offensive-questions.
-talk about your ex-boyfriends.He will think that you have not gotten over
them.-be slutty.
Parethesis.Boys,when they meet a girl the automatic put her in an invisible list.
There are 2 categories.The first one contains the girls they want only to,ahem,sleep with,and second one the girls who want to have a serious relationship with.If you want to be in the second category try to act like you are a part of it already.End of parenthesis.
-show something you not really are(reasons above).
There are 2 categories.The first one contains the girls they want only to,ahem,sleep with,and second one the girls who want to have a serious relationship with.If you want to be in the second category try to act like you are a part of it already.End of parenthesis.
-show something you not really are(reasons above).
A!And here is a list of the themes you can talk about(well,I think I am losing my time with this because I think you already know).
1.Likes & Dislikes.
2.Places you use to hang out.
3.Music
4.Movies.
5.Best-friends.
6.Childhood.
7.School or job.
8.Memories.
9.Goals and dreams.
10.Hobbies.
And the list is way to big to continue on writing!
1.Likes & Dislikes.
2.Places you use to hang out.
3.Music
4.Movies.
5.Best-friends.
6.Childhood.
7.School or job.
8.Memories.
9.Goals and dreams.
10.Hobbies.
And the list is way to big to continue on writing!
Extra tip no2:Be confident!First dates are really cute.The best date ever was with my today-boyfriend because I was myself!
I hope my advice will help you even though I pretty sure that in a date if you are with someone who you really like everything will be perfect.
I hope my advice will help you even though I pretty sure that in a date if you are with someone who you really like everything will be perfect.
Addicted to dates,
Rika.
Rika.
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