Tuesday, May 4, 2010

When a person you know becomes a person you knew.

Imagine you are someone else.Your name is-lets say-Lilly.And you have a close friend whose name is Amanda.You and Amanda like to hang out a lot,you go to the movies,you sleep at each others house,you laugh,you share secrets,you bond.
And suddenly something happens and the things are not the way they were before.But the reason is unknown.
The first step is recognizing the change.
The second is to talk.
The third is to forgive.

You see people make mistakes that sometimes may hurt other people.This is not a thing to be shamed on,because it is absolutely "human".
The thing that must makes you feel sad is when you leave this relationship like that.Because two people that are so close,that are friends,must try.

Somebody,a long time before,told me that it takes years to make a REAL friend.And he added that you can lose him in seconds.
But he didn't tell me if you can ever "win"him back.I personally think you can.With time and with patience and love and affection.

3 comments:

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Kate Pantier @ Mommy Monologues said...

Hi Rika! I agree, it takes years to build friendships! It's hard to get them back when anger or hurt has been involved! I like your blog! I'm following you back!!!